There actually was a time when virginity was such a precious thing. To be a virgin was such an honor and a priviledge. There was a time when women said 'no', and valued their bodies to the max. There was a time when women actually looked down upon men who followed them around asking for sex.
And that was the same time when men really respected women. When men didn't take women for granted, and a true man was measured by how well he treated a woman. An honorable man didn't just take a woman for granted, but honored her by waiting for the wedding night.
Where did those days go? Just what happened to those days? What happened to self-respect? Where did the patience go? When did all the chaos and commotion begin? When did women start becoming so cheap and easy?
And why is it that a woman is frowned upon for being a virgin? And why are virgin women in such a hurry to not become a virgin? When did virgins become such a joke? Why is self respect such an issue? Can't virgins just be let be? Can't people respect someone from abstaining from sex? Why is it funny when someone wants to restrain and keep herself?
Either way, I believe that virgins are slowly by slowly fading. They're becoming rarer and rarer. They're becoming endangered, and anyone who finds one is almost on a mission to extinguish her. And I wish virgins would stand out and be proud. They have every right to. They are strongest of all women, especially in this day and age. I don't think they should shy away, I think they should stand out.
I am one of the few left. Anyone else?
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